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Love Thy Neighbor(hood): The Marina vs. The Mission

Michelle Bergmann and Justin Juul | January 20, 2012 | Lifestyle Story City Life News and Features Neighborhoods


The Singles:
Twentysomething ex–frat boys, ex–sorority girls, and financial district types.

Where to Find ’em:
Balboa Cafe, Campus, Eastside West, the Tipsy Pig.

Typical First Date:
A glass of wine at Bin 38 or Terzo, where you spend most of your time talking about mutual friends on Facebook.

More Than Just a Hookup:
Heading north over the Golden Gate Bridge for the day, then dinner and pool with his/her friends at the Horseshoe Tavern.

Isn’t It Cheap/Romantic:
Takeout from the Sandwich Spot or Blue Barn Gourmet, and a double-date picnic on Marina Green (the two of you and your dogs).

(S)he’s Just Not That Into You:
Late drinks at Monaghan’s or KT’s, where (s)he spends the whole time checking out the other hot guys/girls on the sly.

How Far For love?
Anywhere on the 45/41 and 22 buses (Russian Hill, North Beach, Pac Heights); the 43 bus line (Haight/Panhandle) if you’re feeling adventurous.


The Singles:
Geek entrepreneurs, diyers, hipsters, artsy coffee freaks with laptops.

Where to Find ‘em:
Enjoying some cheap beer–and–amateur DJ action at the Attic; sipping bean juice at Ritual Coffee Roasters or Revolution Café; getting a healthy-burrito fix at Papalote; climbing at Mission Cliffs.

Typical First Date:
Beer at the Monk’s Kettle; coffee and baked goods at Mission Pie—you go halfsies whether or not (s)he works in tech.

More Than Just a Hookup:
Delfina à deux or Mission Chinese with a group of friends, followed by a cab, not a walk, home.

Isn’t It Cheap/Romantic:
Sandwiches from Rhea’s and a hike up Bernal Hill or Twin Peaks to enjoy the views.

(S)he’s Just Not That Into You:
Drinks on a weekday instead of a weekend, then a way-too-lengthy stopover in the public restroom at 16th and Mission.

How Far For Love?
Buses go everywhere, and much of the city is a cinch by bike—but plenty of Missionites won’t even venture to the other side of South Van Ness or 24th street for a fling.



Ah, it's the tale of the star-crossed lovers from two different worlds. Luckily for them there's plenty of places their friends won't catch them together, but the Tendernob is probably their best bet.

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Russian/Nob Hill vs. NoPa
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